May: A Month of Milestones
How many of us get to May and wonder how the month flew by so fast?
This May feels especially full—both of my children are graduating: one from high school, the other from 8th grade. On top of the ceremonies, there are parties to plan, guests to welcome, and preparations underway for my son’s next chapter—college in August. It’s a lot, and I know I’m not alone in feeling like May grows more hectic every year.
In fact, when it comes to the rush of May—or even December—I approach both months the same way. If I didn’t, I’d surely get lost in the chaos. With so many events, responsibilities, gifts to organize, and people to celebrate, I’ve learned the importance of carving out intentional time. Time to breathe. Time to move. Time to simply enjoy being with my family.
This year is particularly meaningful for us, but it’s also an exciting time for all kids graduating. They have their whole lives ahead of them—each with a unique journey to take. And for those of us parents navigating graduations, weddings, and other life transitions, this season is both busy and beautiful.
Somehow, everything seems to culminate in May. But even amid the busyness, there’s so much to be grateful for. I do think in the whirlwind of months like May and December, there is much to be thankful for and it is at those times when surrounded by family and friends, take a moment to treasure the time and to celebrate those gatherings.
Try and take time to savor those family moments or times together. Make time to go on a family hike or out for a meal, no phones, just time to talk, laugh and treasure. As each year has flown by, I try and look back to treasure moments and they are fleeting. It is am important skill to teach your children to not always look ahead or focus on the past but to be present. I am very guilty of looking ahead but having children and watching them grow has really brought me perspective. I really try and step out of a moment so I can really feel the feelings and know what is going on. Next year will be so different with my son away and just my daughter and my husband and I. It will be different but exciting for all of us.
